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  • October 2014

    Halloween can be a fun time for couples. Depending on the length and level of comfort of your relationship, it can be a great bonding (and hilarious) experience to dress in complimentary costumes. It makes for great shared memories and shows your friends that you’re committed to each other.

    NOTE: If you haven’t been dating for a long time, couples costumes could be a bad idea. You wouldn’t want to have a bad memory from one of the most fun holidays of the year. Decide carefully.

    Anyway, me and my team came up with a list of original couples costumes you could wear if you decide to dress up together. Comment at the end with your favorite couples costumes.

    1. Jasmine and Aladdin
    2. Bar of soap and loofah
    3. Baywatch
    4. Lois Lane and Clark Kent
    5. Dora and Diego
    6. Cat and mouse
    7. Danny Zuko and Sandy
    8. Firefighter and Dalmatian
    9. Geeks
    10. Milk and cereal
    11. The Flintstones
    12. David Beckham and Posh Spice
    13. Fantastic Mr Fox and Mrs Fox
    14. Sookie Stackhouse and Bill Compton
    15. Walter White and Jesse
    16. Sonny and Cher
    17. Miley Cyrus and a wrecking ball
    18. Lucy and Ricky Ricardo
    19. Titanic
    20. Salt and pepper
    21. Lady bug and bumble bee
    22. Tarzan and Jane
    23. Bonnie and Clyde
    24. Doctor and Nurse
    25. Jack and Sallie
    26. Roger and Ebert
    27. Mom and baby
    28. Bank robber and lady officer
    29. Beauty and the Beast
    30. Aladdin and Apu

    What would you add to this list?

  • Relationship Advice For September

    Did you meet a mysterious man this past weekend and you're not sure how to keep him on the edge? Here are a few great tips that will keep him wanting more!

  • August

    When you need a pick-me-up or some motivation to keep on looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right, just take a look at some of these love/dating images. 

    PS: you might notice them from my official Facebook page, but thought it'd be nice to have them on the site so we can put them on Pinterest :)


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March 22, 2012

Rewarding Relationships

March 22, 2012

Dear Romantics,

We all want HAPPINESS in our lives.  We do not want to be hurt in relationships and we want to know we are on the right path to finding our Special Someone!  Doing The Rules will ensure that you have boundaries in place that prevent you from ever getting tragically hurt by anyone that you are interested in or even already involved with.

Keep Reading below for this week's blog post.

We are lucky to have friends and family that love us and want the best for us.  And as we are blessed to have such wonderful people looking out for our best interest, we still must keep in mind that friends and loved ones may encourage us to unintentionally engage in unrewarding relationship behaviours on the premise that "it's good for you" or "I just want you to be happy!"  For example, let's say you and your friends are out and a guy approaches you and your group.  You have now simply and literally just met a guy, nothing else - but - your friends are already telling you, "He's a great guy."  According to your friends and family, "He's perfect for you!!!" and "Oh my gosh!  You HAVE to call him!  Do it now!" or "Text him! Come on, don't be so rude to him.  It's just a text!  Stop being so ridiculous."

First of all, you are not being ridiculous, you are just doing the right thing by not chasing "the great guy" down and you're correctly following The Rules, which teaches us that women never pursue men.  NEVER.  Unless this man was specifically talking to YOU, approaching YOU and making eye contact with YOU, how can you and your friends be SO SURE that he's into you?  And even more so, that "he's so great?"  It's very easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of excitement when there's fresh man meat standing in front of you and your friends.  So while your friends and loved ones are happy and excited for you that an actual male came and spoke with wonderful you, even if he is "the greatest guy ever!" that does not give you a license to drive 150 miles per hour on the Relationship Highway, nor do you ever want to be perceived as eager or desperate. 

Friends and family are amazing support systems and genuinely love us and care for us, however they may not be schooled in The Rules and they may want to see you with someone and their points of view may not align with what you\'re trying to achieve and that goal is being a "CUAO!" - "A Creature Unlike Any Other," who is different and not so available to men, especially at the first meet.

You know better Rules Girls!  You know to assess the situation.  You know that just because people think "he's great!" that a) He may not be "Great"; b) He may not be "Great" for YOU; c) He may be "Great" for your friends and that's why they're pushing you so hard to pursue him (call him, text him, run after him, ask him to dance) and that d) IF he is indeed "Mr. Great," and he's into you, TRUST ME, he'll let it be known by either talking to you, asking you to dance, asking you for your name, number, email, twitter handle, facebook friendship etc... You get the idea.  You will know!  So don't be a desperate damsel and chase down ANY guy that comes your way or you'll be saying BUH-BYE to something that never even started!


You are gorgeous. 
You are special.
You are worth having love from an amazing man!



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